You Got Married Because You Believed A Lie...

When you fell in love, my guess is that your life felt pretty amazing.

It was intoxicating to find someone who adored you, respected you, and trusted you.

They overlooked your flaws.

They couldn't keep their hands off you.

You felt like the knight in shining armor.

You figured...

"If I Marry The Right Person, We Will Always Make Each Other Happy"

So you got hitched.

And not long thereafter, things started going downhill.

You started arguing about petty things.

You started harboring some resentment towards each other.

You stopped having awesome sex.

And these days, you don't feel very much like that Knight in Shining Armor.

Now, Despite Your Best Efforts, You Just Feel Like A Failure Of A Husband

Like no matter what you do, or how hard you try, it's never good enough.

You escape into your work, video games, sports, pornography, or other activities to numb out and avoid feeling like a failure.

Your temper seems to get shorter and shorter.

Your resentment is growing.

Your partner doesn't seem to desire you anymore. 

If you're still having sex, it often feels monotonous and obligatory.

You don't really have many real friends. When you're around other men, you only talk about surface-level stuff like sports, the weather, and Marvel movies.

You don't feel respected, admired, or adored by your partner.

You feel more like roommates than lovers.

You know things need to change, or the future doesn't look good.

And if you're honest with yourself, what you really want to see change is your partner.

If she would just acknowledge you for some the good you offer to her life...

Or stop insisting that everything have to be done her way...

Or stop nagging you and criticizing you for all your flaws and imperfections...

Or complaining that the life you work so hard to provide her with isn't good enough...

Life would be a lot better.

The Fastest Way To Get The Tools, Skills, And Blueprint For A Successful Marriage

The Epic Husband's Experiment is a 3-month program designed to help husbands enhance their very best skills, and improve in the areas that need a little work.

Most men are constantly seeking reassurance.

Initially, their primary source of validation is their wives.

If they don't get the reassurance and reinforcement they need voluntarily...

They will often resort to anger, intimidation, pouting, the silent treatment, emotional withdrawal, and other manipulation tactics to get their wives to:

❌ Reassure them with sex...

❌ Pepper them with coerced compliments and praise...

❌ Give in to their demands as a sign of respect...

And if they can't get what they need from their wives, they turn to things like work, video games, sports, church, alcohol, drugs, or even porn.

An Epic Husband does not get his needs met by manipulating or intimidating their partner.

And he doesn't get it by trying to fill his inner void with counterfeits.

He derives his sense of fulfillment and purpose by embodying honorable values, like:

✅ The courage to stop running from his inner demons and face them in order to become a better man. 

✅ The humility to surround himself with other men who will call him forward to be his best self, and lovingly call him out when he's not honoring his commitments.

✅ The wisdom to learn to manage his negative emotions so he does not hurt those around him.

✅ The integrity to align his actions with his words, and strive to clean up the resulting mess when he breaks a commitment.

If this sounds like the kind of man you want to become, keep reading.

Here's how it works:

A hand-selected group of 6-10 men will work together with me over the course of 3 months.

Every week we will have a 90-minute group call wherein you will:

1. Learn about the specific value or principle we will strive to embody that week
2. Learn to give and receive support by sharing your observations, experiences, and yes, feelings with other men
3. Make clear and specific commitments to yourself and the group that you will be expected to honor before the next meeting

You will also be added to a private Marco Polo group where you can connect with other Husbands throughout the week, share your experiences, get support, and create meaningful friendships.

And finally, you will get 1 year of access to my membership program, Epic Marriage Club, to equip you with tons of additional resources, and continued connection with me.

After this 3-month experience, you'll have the tools to:

Who Is This For?

If you're still not clear whether or not the Epic Husband's Experiment is the right program for you, that's ok. Not every program is a good fit for every person.

So, let me help you figure out if applying is a good move for you or not.

The Epic Husband's Experiment ISN'T the right fit for you if:

❌  You're in the middle of a divorce, or you're separated from your partner. This is a relationship-strengthening program, not a keep-my-wife-from-leaving-me program.

❌  You're not coachable. If you're unwilling to do hard things, be held accountable for your mistakes, or take responsibility for your words, actions, and emotions, this is not a good program for you.

❌  You can't prioritize an hour every single week to attend our live coaching calls.

The Epic Husband's Experiment IS the right fit for you if:

✅  You're a classic "Nice Guy" and believe the only way to have a happy marriage is to put your partners needs and wants above your own.

✅  You feel overwhelmed by your negative emotions (like frustration, disappointment, loneliness, neglect, exhaustion, etc.) and they often get communicated as anger, or emotional withdrawal.

✅  You feel like a failure as a husband and/or father. Whenever you try, it's not good enough. And if you don't try at all, it's even worse. 

✅  Your sex life is lackluster. (You're not having enough sex. The sex you're having isn't good sex. Or you don't find yourself wanting sex at all anymore.)

✅  You don't have close male friends with whom you talk about real life issues.

✅  When your marriage (or life) gets hard, your coping mechanism is to "just deal with it" by shoving the emotions down, or ignoring them until they explode sometime in the future as an eruption anger, sadness, or another emotion.

✅  You love your partner, but you don't really like them very much these days.

✅  You keep having the same stupid arguments over and over, and you're getting tired of it.

✅  Your marriage isn't great, but it's not a disaster. But if you don't shift things now, you can see the writing on the wall... things will probably get worse.

✅  You have a partner who blames you for every bad thing that happens in your relationship.

✅  You tend to blame your partner for every bad thing that happens in your relationship.

✅  You're ready to be the kind of husband and father that deep down you really want to be.